As we all know, parenting can be one of the most difficult jobs anywhere, but at the same time, is definitely, one of the most rewarding. The following article is taken from fellow parents, who have been there and done that and hope to take a little bit of learning the hard way, out of your parenting.
Try to attend every performance, sporting event, or whatever your child has going on. This is a great way for you to show your child that you care about them and to encourage them in whatever they want to do. If you have multiple children and their events conflict with each other, one parent may have to go to one event and the other to the other event; but always try to attend these events unless you absolutely cannot.
When you have your first child, don’t buy every gadget on the market. There are a million products out there for your infant and the truth is, you don’t need most of them. Buying a million things will only clutter your house up and cost you more money than you need to spend.
To make hair washing an easier process, pretend like your child is visiting a hair salon. Allow her to lay her head up to the sink and place a towel underneath her neck. Give your child a head massage while you are rinsing her hair. Engaging in imaginative play, will make this task fun for your child.
Giving firm and clear instructions can help when you have trouble getting a child to listen to you. Asking your child to do something generally gets poorer results than when you firmly tell them to do something. For example, a common problem that many parents have is getting their child to brush their teeth at night. Asking the child to brush their teeth is not going to be as successful as telling them it is time to brush their teeth.
Start your child’s education as early as possible. Even when a kid is little, there are tons of games you can play with them that make learning fun. You can find games to teach them math, science, reading, spelling, etc. It’s never too early to start your child’s education, and if you make it fun, you’ll make them want to keep learning.
Treat your child the way you’d want your parents to treat you. If you hated it when your child screamed at you, your child will, too. Talking in a calm, rational manner is more likely to get you heard than screaming. Show your children how you would like them to behave when they are angry.
Have your child become involved with after-school clubs, like sports. Participating in these activities cultivates your child’s social skills and allows him or her to make friends. The benefits of this process stretch right up into and throughout adulthood. If your child is busy participating in after-school activities they will be less likely to engage in negative activities.
Hopefully, you have found this article to be informative and educational and even a bit inspirational, in your parental search for solutions. Mix all the information in with a good sense of humor and you have the beginnings of great attitude in facing the most challenging role of your lifetime, with grace, success and a smile.